Winning Your Spouse's Love

1. Don’t act as if you are doing her a favour by working or providing, Allah is the Provider, the husband is the carrier of the sustenance to the family.
2. Make her feel secure, don’t threaten her with divorce.
3. Be generous with her.
4. Look good and smell great for your wife.
5. Call your wife with the best names, cute nicknames, and names she loves to hear.
6. Encourage her to keep good relations with her family.
7. Express to her relatives, how wonderful she is.
8. Get rid of routine, surprise her.
9. Add a drop of patience, increase during pregnancy, menses.
10. Help her love your relatives, but don’t try to force her.
11. Let her know that she is the ideal wife for you.
12. Leave the past for Allah, don’t dwell on, dig into, or bring it up.
13. Don’t ignore the small things, deal with them before they be come big.
14. Respect that she might not be in mood for intimacy, stay within Halaal boundaries.